A useful disagreement identifies the decision at stake before it argues a position. State the shared goal, quote the specific claim you contest, and explain which fact or assumption leads you elsewhere. Then propose a concrete next step: a small test, a source to check, or a choice that needs an owner.
Keep motives and character judgments out of it. “The proposed deadline leaves no time for review; could we move release to Thursday or reduce scope?” gives others something to decide. If the evidence is incomplete, label your interpretation as tentative. The aim is not to win a thread; it is to make the disagreement resolvable.